LOVE FOR LIFE

DREAM - In simple word, dreams are made up of small little elements of our day to day life which is able to grab our attention in no time. A dream can be a beautiful one - which we would like to feel and experience again and again in our life. A dream can be a dreadful one -  which we just want to forget within a flash of time and sometimes it is so terrifying that we fear to close our two little tiny eyes the next night. <script async src="//pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js"></script> <ins class="adsbygoogle" style="display:block; text-align:center;" data-ad-layout="in-article" data-ad-format="fluid" data-ad-client="ca-pub-9506095024592281" data-ad-slot="2177286641"></ins> <script> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); </script> A dream can be a life-changing one - which defines both our pro

I would like to start this post with a world famous quote - OPEN YOUR EYES AND LOOK WITHIN. ARE YOU SATISFIED WITH THE LIFE YOU'RE LIVING??? - BOB MARLEY. I chose this very quote because it contains the entire story which I am going to talk about. SATISFACTION has nothing to do with the money you have and the materialistic things you possess. The moment you dare to look within you for finding an answer to the above question, you will realise it all.  You can anytime be satisfied in the outer world , the moment you reach a six-digit salary, buy a four-wheeler car, own a 3BHK apartment, have two lovely kids with a beautiful wife/husband. This all looks great to go until the moment you are in a crisis and you realise these things are not enough to bring you out of that crisis which has fallen upon you.  But what is this crisis???  Can't it be solved with all the money you have and the things you possess!!! Can't the love of your wife/husband an

We all want to live a life KING SIZE . We dream of a life which is  SMOOTH, HAPPY, PEACEFUL, CALM AND PLEASANT . Yes, we do crave for a BEAUTIFUL piece of life. WAIT A MOMENT!!! Why do we need to crave for it??? What's wrong with the current phase of life??? Isn't it harmonious!!! Isn't the situation in your favour!!! So, who is responsible for this?? Don't you have the control of the situations in your hands ??? Many questions asked, but not a single answered. So, let me begin with answering all of them right from the beginning. We crave for a BEAUTIFUL piece of life because we have a HABIT of craving for things which we don't have. The moment we stop craving for a BIGGER AND BETTER life, we will start finding this piece of life equally BEAUTIFUL . In this current phase of life, we have a habit of finding the CAUSE AFTER THE EFFECT HAS SHOWN IT'S RESULTS . But we want our life to be in a phase where we can control the CAUSE TO GUIDE T

The whole world is constantly trying to fight the chattering going around them. Chattering may be about them or it may be to demise the character of someone or it may be about the different problems that the country is facing. When someone keeps talking about you, about your character and your profession, then you are left with just two options. FACE IT i.e GIVE IT BACK RIGHT ON THEIR FACE - This is the easier way out, as it helps you release all your frustrations. But you must be again ready to take it on you when you throw a word or two. This might then continue for long as both of them tries to satisfy their ego. It actually becomes A WAR OF EGO .  IGNORE LIKE YOU WANT TO IGNORE THE STREET DOGS BARKING AT YOU - This step requires a serious amount of courage. You have to do a lot of homework before you actually can reach that stage of SERENE AND CALMNESS to ignore the shit. You will understand both the steps only if you have ever noticed the behaviour of dogs barki

W HAT IS ADDICTION??? Addiction is in simple terms can be described as a situation when you don't have any control over what you are doing and still enjoying it. For me, addiction is anything which leads you to a path at the end of which you will surely regret of doing that thing. The word ADD in ADDICTION refers to the same addition which you keep on adding to the activity which should have been stopped a long time before. Before we discuss the solution of getting rid of ADDICTION , it is very important to discuss GOOD ADDICTION AND BAD ADDICTION . So, first of all, it should be very clear that there is no such thing called GOOD ADDICTION and BAD ADDICTION . You can never term anything as a GOOD ADDICTION as long as you lose control over what you are doing . I feel ADDICTION is very similar to CANCER . Like CANCER , once it enters your body or attacks your body, it destroys you completely or if you want to defeat CANCER then you have to change yourself completel

BLISSFUL means IMMENSE AMOUNT OF HAPPINESS AND PEACE IN LIFE, amount of which is not even countable . A blissful life is not like a period of sadness, followed by a period of happiness, then again a period of happiness and so on. This period of happiness and sadness in life exist in life when you try to find happiness in something or someone . So, the one who makes you feel happy is around you, you feel happy and the moment that someone who makes you feel happy moves away from you, it makes you feel sad. Look, before you find the solution of HOW TO MAKE LIFE BLISSFUL , you need to find out the reason WHAT KEEPS YOU AWAY FROM MAKING YOUR LIFE BLISSFUL ?? So, after observing a lot of people around me and in places I found out that there is the only single thing which keeps you away from making your life blissful. YOU always CARRY A BAGGAGE OF BEING SOMEONE ELSE . This is the real problem with you. It stops you from being YOU . When you try to be someone else, it gives you

In my last post, I talked about the ill-effects of crackers on you and the people around you and how it dampens the excitement of some of the people because of your negligence. Link to the previous post - https://loveforlife007.blogspot.in/2017/10/diwali-why-you-need-to-change-style-of.html So, the most important question is - If not crackers, then what ??? How do we make Diwali equally cheerful without crackers !!! In this blog, I will share with you, all the ways through which we can celebrate Diwali in a grander and greater way. By saying NO TO CRACKERS you will surely save a hell lot of money. So, you can use that amount in other ways effectively to celebrate this Diwali . These are a few ways, which according to me can make your Diwali this year more satisfying than ever - Buy the best dress for yourself to wear on Diwali eve - What?? Someone is saying irrespective of whether we burn CRACKERS or not, we always buy the best clothes for ourselves . So, this is a

N ow whatever I am going to write today will only be meaningful and successful, if and only if the people, especially the youngsters take a step to take up this cause and encourage others around them to follow the same. Try it for once, just this time and if you feel the difference both within you and around you, then go on with the idea and if not, then you can surely go back to what you used to do . POLLUTION - This term I am sure is not new to anyone of you living in whichever part of the world right now. This term is trending almost throughout the year. In fact,  this is the most talking about word after "SEX" . So, why you the people, with the help of whom this EARTH is made up of, is not ready to do your bit to minimise POLLUTION. When people talk about SEX, they also feel an urge to convert the same into action and get results, so why do you people just end up talking and making comments about POLLUTION ??? Why not do the same in case of POLLUTION, take up th

EXPECTATION is the cause of all bitterness in any relationship . What is EXPECTATION ??? EXPECTATION is nothing more than COMPULSION . It is a process where you try to forcibly make someone do something by coating your demands with sugary substance . EXPECTATIONS are not bad until you keep it only to yourself. Expecting something from yourself is no bad thing. You have every right to expect everything from you . Time and again you can ask yourself to do something for yourself. But why do you have such HIGH EXPECTATIONS from somebody??? In fact, who are you to make someone act or do something the way you like to ?? I would say, the one who tries to fulfil everyone's expectations is the real culprit. Once you live up to someone's expectation-  Will they in future not expect anything from you ??  Surely they will, in fact, the expectation level will increase in future . Because people are never satisfied with what they get.  During the initi

DO YOU KNOW WHAT DESIRE IS??? DESIRE IS NOTHING BUT A FORM OF ENERGY . This is the same energy which keeps our body parts together and helps it to keep moving 24*7. If it is so, then why do we sometimes feel so confused and frustrated  because of the same desire!!!! This is where you got it wrong my dear readers. Desires don't make you feel frustrated or hopeless . Desires can be viewed in two forms, namely - FULFILLED DESIRES UNFULFILLED DESIRES .  So, the cause of all the problem, frustrations, and misery is this UNFULFILLED DESIRE . Have you ever been in a situation when you had felt unhappy after fulfilling your desire which you had been wanting to achieve!!! Obviously not, not even for a single second did it cause any trouble in your life. In fact, once you fulfil a desire, you tend to forget all the problems and difficulties you faced while reaching the endpoint and finally achieving it . We need to find a solution on how to deal with this UNFULFILLED DES

WE THE HUMAN BEINGS HAVE AN URGE OR AN URGENCY TO FOLLOW SOMEONE OR TO BE LIKE SOMEONE . WE DON'T BELIEVE IN OURSELVES. I really feel sad about the urgency that is being created among the people right from childhood. We all have been asked this question - " Ok, children tell me, like whom do you want to become when you grow up "??? Why is this question asked for !!!! For what reason do we ask a child this kind of terrible questions and put a limit to the child's infinitely limitless thoughts . The moment we try to become someone else or just be like someone else and start following someone too closely, there are just two possibilities from this - 1st aspect is, we will e nd up being exactly the one who we are following and not an inch greater than that because we already form an image or a limit of how we want to be  - if that person is successful and well established then you may see this as a good way of moving ahead in life. But wait for it. Don'

SOCIAL MEDIA - It is a platform, where we are able to get the news of all of the things going around in the world in one place. It means nothing more than that according to me. Explaining something to yourself which you understand completely is the most important part of anything . Social Media has become a reason for death, depression, murder, theft, molestation, kidnapping and a vast number of crimes going all around in the world . I have not written this just for seeking your attention. It really has become the source of all the negatives in the world. I will list here a number of facts and instances which will prove these right. Social media was created with an intention to bring together the people all around the world . It helped the people to get connected to someone living in another country or another place. Its real intention was to cheer the bond among the people and strengthen it to the limitless point . But it has done just the opposite in recent past. I

SLEEP - An activity in which our body rests for a while. Yes, it is a sort of activity . If it would not have been an activity, then why would some people find it difficult to sleep ? All the activities in the world can be done just for a certain period of time, after which our body gets tired and it demands rest to regain the energy. Similarly, as sleep is also an activity, it also has to be done only for a certain period of time. If done beyond that and on a continuous basis, our body feels tired and fatigue starts accumulating inside our body . So, it is necessary for the body to wake up after a definite amount of sleep or the body will start getting tired. Sleep can be further explained clearly as a FAST FOOD . If you have ever noticed, then you would understand what I am trying to say. Suppose we feel hungry, and to stop that hunger we eat a packet of chips or fries or any other fast food. But those fries and chips instead of reducing our hunger just give it a push

H eard of Mental Diarrhoea ??? It is as dangerous as physical diarrhoea. Moreover, it has become a common part of this generation and it comes irrespective of your age and sex. Mental diarrhoea in simple terms is the flow of thoughts inside the mind in all the directions without your control on it . Like physical diarrhoea, this too happens because of improper food you eat. Our body needs food for performing the bodily cycle of life, similarly, our mind requires its own kind of food which generates a thought inside the mind. Yes, you read it right. The thought does not generate all by itself . The thoughts start generating once we ask something or think something inside our mind. This thinking process or the question which we ask to the mind is the food I was talking about . We feed the mind with this food which in turn helps the mind to generate thoughts. I guess by now you all have understood what I am trying to convey. If not, no problem, because I will go on to expla

This post is very close to my heart. Cleanliness, which should be our responsibility as a citizen is not so in this selfish world. Cleanliness plays such a big role which we have failed to understand in this generation. But it is still not late to realize what we must do to keep our Earth clean and pure . It is really painful to see someone spitting on the road. What is even more painful is that they feel doing this is really cool . I mean how can really anyone think of spitting on the same road, for which you have paid your hard earned money to construct the same. It is very similar to someone spitting on your money . If you yourself don't care to keep your road clean why will others even think of it!!!! I mean to say if you the people who are paying the heavy taxes to construct and keep the roads clean, spit on the road, then how and why are you expecting the people, the labour class people to not spit on the roads for which you have paid those hefty taxes . Now many p

B EAUTY - Anything that pleases your eyes and mind is BEAUTY . This is what according to most of the people, the definition of BEAUTY is. But when I asked myself to define BEAUTY, it instantly had one single answer - Anything that pleases your HEART is BEAUTY . Now, beauty is something which is very difficult to put together into few words. The only way you will be able to admire someone's beauty is when your HEART IS BEAUTIFUL . Here I am not talking about the outward appearance, because if that is what you think BEAUTY is, then every single person in the world can be BEAUTIFUL . JUST a few bugs in your wallet and there you go, you will come out with all of the glowing faces, fair skin, dazzling eyes . This post is about THE BEAUTY OF HEART . A person is BEAUTIFUL only if he/she possesses the BEAUTY within himself/herself. That beauty will automatically reflect on their appearances. Here are a few characteristics of BEAUTY - It is not comparable - The moment y

W hen was the last time you did something selflessly for someone who cannot in any way repay you back ??? Can't remember!!! This is the reason why the gap between the rich and poor is exponentially increasing day by day. THE RICH ARE GETTING RICHER AND THE POOR ARE GETTING POORER . It is really a major thing to worry about. It is we who need to think about this problem and find a solution to reduce the gap between the rich and poor. It is only we who could solve and minimise this problem and bring EQUALITY in our society. Here I am not talking all about financial help because it is quite possible that many of you will not be to lend money to those who will be in need. For students or non-employed people, it will be difficult to help financially in a big way but a small amount of your pocket money is what I am asking for . These are a list of ways in the form of which you can lend support to those who really need your help - (provided you are up for it) -

M ahatma Gandhi once said - " THE WORLD HAS ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE'S NEED, BUT NOT ENOUGH FOR ANYONE'S GREED ". Think of it for a while with a clean mind and then start reading the blog. This might help you relate to what I am trying to say. Earning for your own family, working day and night for the betterment of your own children, creating wealth for your future in the right way, all these are no doubt very good things anyone and everyone should do and there is no wrong in that. We all want our family to be in a comfortable situation and we should definitely work towards it. But have you ever realized in the run for creating a comfortable situation for yourself and your family, you sometimes forget your duty towards your motherland and the people living on this earth who really really needs you!!!! We do want to make a better life for ourselves, and it should be done but should it be done at the cost of harming others directly or indirectly !!!! Have you e

D ESIRES- When every JOULE of energy have concentrated in a single point to help you achieve something you want in life in simple term is known as desire. One Life - This is all we have got. A single life, which may be a short one or a long one. So, you may be thinking the duration of our living in this world is not in our control, what is the point of discussing about it!!! But wait, the duration of life is not determined by long you live on this planet Earth . It depends simply on the way you live and enjoy every moment you have . That determines the longevity of your life.  A person who is alive for 95 years but crushed all his desires throughout his life, is said have led a shorter and sorrowful life than a person who is alive for 65 years but fulfilled every desire he/she saw may it be a smaller one or a bigger one . There have been thousands of instances in your life when you might have crushed your small little desires sometimes for the sake of health , so

R ACE TO PERFECTION - Is equivalent to being a part of RAT RACE .  Perfect - This word has locked us in a boundary, which we now fear of breaking. The race to being perfect is the source of all stress and tension in life. From schools to colleges to the corporate world, everywhere the teachers and bosses advice us to be perfect . Because according to them without being perfect you cannot compete with your counterparts and may lose in the race of life.   Can everyone in a class be ranked 1st??? Can everyone in a college get the same package in the same company??? Can everyone in a company get promoted to the post of Manager at the same time??? If the answer to any one of the above questions is YES , then you all should surely be a part of this race, RACE OF BEING PERFECT . But if the answer to these questions is NO , then, please take a side from this RACE and read this blog . Disadvantages of being a part of race to perfection - You lose your ai

O verconfidence - God knows how many lives it has destructed and how many careers have been crushed to the ground because of overconfidence!!! Overconfidence can be referred to as a disease which is very malignant in nature. Once it effects you, it leaves you only after reducing your "overconfidence to the level of underconfidence" . Just as salt needs to be in the right amount in every dish to make it taste perfect, a pinch more and the dish becomes too salty and a pinch less makes it tasteless . Similarly, confidence should be in the right amount in your mind, body, brain to make you act perfectly, a level more makes you "overconfident - destruction" and a level less makes you "underconfident - useless" . So, how to maintain the right level of accuracy and not be overconfident in life?? For this, we need to understand, from where does this overconfidence generate, like what is the source point of this disease??? Once we are able to discov

T hank You - The combination of these two lovely words can make anyone's day, especially if the person is someone who is not into the habit of hearing these two lovely words. Now you all may be thinking what is so lovely about these two words and how will it make any difference in someone's life??? It will my dear friends, it will make a lot of difference when you get to realize what I am trying to convey. Take a deep look at the following instances - think of a vegetable vendor selling vegetables in your local market and the way people treat them all throughout the year - some may shout at them for the increasing prices of vegetables for which they are not even responsible, some may shout at them just because they had a fight at home, some may shout and taunt them just because they didn't give free coriander and green chilli. think of a cab driver who drops you safely and drives through the traffic throughout the day and the kind of customers they have to de