WHY YOU SHOULD START BEING YOURSELF AND STOP BEING SOMEONE ELSE!!!!

WE THE HUMAN BEINGS HAVE AN URGE OR AN URGENCY TO FOLLOW SOMEONE OR TO BE LIKE SOMEONE. WE DON'T BELIEVE IN OURSELVES.

I really feel sad about the urgency that is being created among the people right from childhood. We all have been asked this question - "Ok, children tell me, like whom do you want to become when you grow up"???

Why is this question asked for!!!! For what reason do we ask a child this kind of terrible questions and put a limit to the child's infinitely limitless thoughts. The moment we try to become someone else or just be like someone else and start following someone too closely, there are just two possibilities from this -

• 1st aspect is, we will end up being exactly the one who we are following and not an inch greater than that because we already form an image or a limit of how we want to be - if that person is successful and well established then you may see this as a good way of moving ahead in life. But wait for it. Don't jump to any conclusion before I give you the 3rd aspect of looking at things.
• 2nd aspect is, you will end up being a part of the directionless crowd who don't know what to do with their life. It is because, if you have decided to become like someone you liked in your childhood and later realized that your strength lies in some other field, then that is the end of it. You will end up being clueless with your life. Later it becomes really difficult to change your thoughts and path. It may also be that you are too late to realize the same and all your courage would have been gone by then to take a strong decision for yourself.

But the 3rd way is the most amazing one which we have not been able to focus on over so many years. Just imagine you are not following anyone in life. Just be the way you are, do what you like to do ("obviously in the right way and right sense") and move on from one point to another. You have to be someone, whom you don't know, you have to be like someone who will be your future. Just imagine how beautiful it would be when you will be getting an opportunity each and every day to create a more amazing you. You will have no limits where you have to reach, you can reach any heights you want without a need to follow the written down steps. You will get to create a path for yourself. You will be the master of it.

Being like someone is not at all easy. It takes a lot of discipline and patience to be like someone. You have to follow so many rules, regulations, steps, laws, critics, drama etc. A small mistake in the way leaves you puzzled. You are always in a disarray. You fall sort of solutions. So, why would take such a big risk when you can follow an easier path, the path whose remote is in your control. Just press a button and modify the way you want to.

Don't let anyone or anything take control over you. You too have hidden wings. It's up to you when you want to spread and fly above the limitations set upon you by the society you live in. It's totally up to you, how you want to allow yourself to move in this world. No one can control you unless you end giving up because that is the easiest act anyone can do.

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