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B EAUTY - Anything that pleases your eyes and mind is BEAUTY . This is what according to most of the people, the definition of BEAUTY is. But when I asked myself to define BEAUTY, it instantly had one single answer - Anything that pleases your HEART is BEAUTY . Now, beauty is something which is very difficult to put together into few words. The only way you will be able to admire someone's beauty is when your HEART IS BEAUTIFUL . Here I am not talking about the outward appearance, because if that is what you think BEAUTY is, then every single person in the world can be BEAUTIFUL . JUST a few bugs in your wallet and there you go, you will come out with all of the glowing faces, fair skin, dazzling eyes . This post is about THE BEAUTY OF HEART . A person is BEAUTIFUL only if he/she possesses the BEAUTY within himself/herself. That beauty will automatically reflect on their appearances. Here are a few characteristics of BEAUTY - It is not comparable - The moment y

W hen was the last time you did something selflessly for someone who cannot in any way repay you back ??? Can't remember!!! This is the reason why the gap between the rich and poor is exponentially increasing day by day. THE RICH ARE GETTING RICHER AND THE POOR ARE GETTING POORER . It is really a major thing to worry about. It is we who need to think about this problem and find a solution to reduce the gap between the rich and poor. It is only we who could solve and minimise this problem and bring EQUALITY in our society. Here I am not talking all about financial help because it is quite possible that many of you will not be to lend money to those who will be in need. For students or non-employed people, it will be difficult to help financially in a big way but a small amount of your pocket money is what I am asking for . These are a list of ways in the form of which you can lend support to those who really need your help - (provided you are up for it) -

M ahatma Gandhi once said - " THE WORLD HAS ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE'S NEED, BUT NOT ENOUGH FOR ANYONE'S GREED ". Think of it for a while with a clean mind and then start reading the blog. This might help you relate to what I am trying to say. Earning for your own family, working day and night for the betterment of your own children, creating wealth for your future in the right way, all these are no doubt very good things anyone and everyone should do and there is no wrong in that. We all want our family to be in a comfortable situation and we should definitely work towards it. But have you ever realized in the run for creating a comfortable situation for yourself and your family, you sometimes forget your duty towards your motherland and the people living on this earth who really really needs you!!!! We do want to make a better life for ourselves, and it should be done but should it be done at the cost of harming others directly or indirectly !!!! Have you e

D ESIRES- When every JOULE of energy have concentrated in a single point to help you achieve something you want in life in simple term is known as desire. One Life - This is all we have got. A single life, which may be a short one or a long one. So, you may be thinking the duration of our living in this world is not in our control, what is the point of discussing about it!!! But wait, the duration of life is not determined by long you live on this planet Earth . It depends simply on the way you live and enjoy every moment you have . That determines the longevity of your life.  A person who is alive for 95 years but crushed all his desires throughout his life, is said have led a shorter and sorrowful life than a person who is alive for 65 years but fulfilled every desire he/she saw may it be a smaller one or a bigger one . There have been thousands of instances in your life when you might have crushed your small little desires sometimes for the sake of health , so

R ACE TO PERFECTION - Is equivalent to being a part of RAT RACE .  Perfect - This word has locked us in a boundary, which we now fear of breaking. The race to being perfect is the source of all stress and tension in life. From schools to colleges to the corporate world, everywhere the teachers and bosses advice us to be perfect . Because according to them without being perfect you cannot compete with your counterparts and may lose in the race of life.   Can everyone in a class be ranked 1st??? Can everyone in a college get the same package in the same company??? Can everyone in a company get promoted to the post of Manager at the same time??? If the answer to any one of the above questions is YES , then you all should surely be a part of this race, RACE OF BEING PERFECT . But if the answer to these questions is NO , then, please take a side from this RACE and read this blog . Disadvantages of being a part of race to perfection - You lose your ai

O verconfidence - God knows how many lives it has destructed and how many careers have been crushed to the ground because of overconfidence!!! Overconfidence can be referred to as a disease which is very malignant in nature. Once it effects you, it leaves you only after reducing your "overconfidence to the level of underconfidence" . Just as salt needs to be in the right amount in every dish to make it taste perfect, a pinch more and the dish becomes too salty and a pinch less makes it tasteless . Similarly, confidence should be in the right amount in your mind, body, brain to make you act perfectly, a level more makes you "overconfident - destruction" and a level less makes you "underconfident - useless" . So, how to maintain the right level of accuracy and not be overconfident in life?? For this, we need to understand, from where does this overconfidence generate, like what is the source point of this disease??? Once we are able to discov

T hank You - The combination of these two lovely words can make anyone's day, especially if the person is someone who is not into the habit of hearing these two lovely words. Now you all may be thinking what is so lovely about these two words and how will it make any difference in someone's life??? It will my dear friends, it will make a lot of difference when you get to realize what I am trying to convey. Take a deep look at the following instances - think of a vegetable vendor selling vegetables in your local market and the way people treat them all throughout the year - some may shout at them for the increasing prices of vegetables for which they are not even responsible, some may shout at them just because they had a fight at home, some may shout and taunt them just because they didn't give free coriander and green chilli. think of a cab driver who drops you safely and drives through the traffic throughout the day and the kind of customers they have to de

H ow many times have we dumped our plans of celebrations after achieving something for which we had been waiting for since long!!!! I am pretty confident, you all must have been doing this right from childhood days. Some achievements may be small and some may be huge, but what I know is, each and every achievement is worth celebrating . Some achievements are celebrated all alone, some with friends and some with family . But why do we delay our celebrations??? Do we really have so much faith in our future and goodness of the planet Earth that we can be very sure of postponing celebrations? If yes, then there is no point reading further . But I don't have so much trust and faith in futuristic things and natural activities . I do love nature and its activities, but nobody knows what awaits you. So, I am writing further and will try to celebrate this moment as I write. I promised to celebrate on following occasions as I kept on climbing and kissing successes from child

W hich is the RIGHT PATH and which one is the WRONG PATH ??? We all want to know about this and perhaps have thought about this at one point in time in our life. But the buzz around us doesn't allow us to sit for a while and think deeply about anything. We all want to be a part of the RIGHT PATH , travel the RIGHT PATH but maybe with time with the fast-moving world around us and increasing responsibilities we forget about the RIGHT and WRONG , and we just think of flowing with the unstoppable wave of life. Only the human mind can differentiate between the RIGHT and WRONG path perhaps according to the billions out there. But do you know, on an average how much time does it take for a human mind to develop fully ??? ANSWER- On an average, it takes around 20 years for any human mind to develop fully. To be more specific any human mind develops fully or starts working to its full potential only after entering the mid-twenties. So, how can you expect someone below the

S MILE - I become speechless, the moment this word comes to my mind. Sometimes I try to imagine the power of this word. Sometimes I try to admire the beauty of this word. Sometimes I try to compare the aura of this word. But every time I fail, and not just fail, I fail badly. I fail to define SMILE in specific terms.  The more I try to think about it, the more I try to form a clear picture of SMILE in my mind, the more it confuses me . I feel like I am in love with this word. This word is not a mere word, as it is an expression in itself . It does not require any adjective to define its beauty, persona, and gentleness . But sometimes, I become sad when I look around and find, not many people are there who knows the real importance and depth of SMILE . The best thing you can do every day is make your loved one SMILE for no reason may be . SMILE for SMILE , that is kind of old style. SMILE for ANGER , welcome this new style. A smile is that attire which does not require any

N O - this two letter word is generally considered negative and is hardly given any importance in life. It deserves a lot more thought and respect . We use this word only for rejection while it has a lot of positive value hidden in it. For this, we need to learn when and how to say NO in a positive way more often !!! First of all, we need to understand why do we don't say NO to people ??? According to me the most important one is- Fear of negative reaction - when we say NO to someone, we are often afraid that it might be taken in a negative way. The chances are high enough that the people will not understand why you said NO and it may hamper your relationship with them. But you need to think about it. Do the people who are unable to understand you and is ready to put the relationship at stake just because of a NO, really matters !!!!! Moreover, you don't have any control on what will others think about you . All you can do is be good to them, rest is upon them, h

L aughing - it is an activity, which does not make us tired. No matter how much we laugh, softly or loudly, we will never be tired of laughing. So why are we not used to LAUGHING more and more??? We do laugh, but have you ever tried to notice when do we laugh more often! We laugh when we make fun of someone for their mistakes or for no reason . Those are perhaps the best moments according to us. But at the same time we forget, how would we feel when we are in the same situation!!! So, why not make laughing a continuous process . For making it a continuous process we need to find out the moments or situation when we don't laugh . After some thinking and investigation I found that when people make fun of us or when people laugh at us, we become upset and start getting irritated. So, all we need to do is LAUGH AT OURSELVES . Benefits of laughing at ourselves are - people will stop laughing at you - it is the most important benefit perhaps. The moment you start laughin

E nergy is just a chemical reaction which keeps on happening inside our body throughout our life. It keeps on happening, whether you are in an inactive mode or in hyperactive mode . The only thing that varies, is the intensity of the chemical reaction inside the body, which depends on the food we eat and the things we drink. So, why is it that sometimes we feel over-energetic and sometimes cuddled by all the laziness !!! Possessing something and using it to its full potential are two different things . Like "Talent, without smart work is useless" , similarly no matter what you eat and drink, to increase the energy release in your body, it is useless until you have the brains to use the energy in the right way. Our body needs a lot of energy release just after we wake up because we haven't eaten anything throughout the night and we are surely deprived of energy . So, we need to eat something which can increase our energy release. Now here is the time we

B efore we get into the whole of this topic and find a solution to face and overcome REJECTION , we have to be very clear in our mind whether REJECTION is good or bad!!! There is two kind of REJECTIONS - GOOD REJECTION and BAD REJECTION . It is obvious we who need to decide which one is what and face the situation accordingly. With time everything gets clearer and we are at ease with both the REJECTIONS and deal with them accordingly. The first step after REJECTION should be ANALYZING instead of UNNECESSARILY REACTING to that situation which most of us, most often do . REJECTION no doubt sounds a lot like a negative term, but it has a huge amount of positive effect in our life . The moment we analyze the situation, we get to know whether it is a good rejection or bad rejection. Now it goes in two directions  - Firstly, if it is a GOOD REJECTION , then we stop worrying about it with a hope that something good might happen in near future. We overcome this type of REJEC

S TRESS - First of all I want a promise from you all that none of you will take any kind of STRESS in reading and find a solution on "How to reduce stress" ?? Because this blog post will not be of any use if you all take stress while reading my blog. So now I am all sure of the fact that you have dumped your stress just for 5 minutes . You have to, first of all, understand what STRESS is and what causes STRESS before we get into how do we need to reduce STRESS . STRESS  - When we start on something ( I mean to start on a point) and without our awareness, we reach to a different point within seconds, then my friends you can be sure that you are in STRESS . Rather I should say that STRESS has taken over you by all means and finding an escape from this point is really really difficult. The moment we are aware of the fact that , we are confined by STRESS , we can put our effort into overcoming and defeating it. This is the best possible way I have discove

A chieving anything in life is easy, only if you think and believe it to be easy. We all see dreams almost every day in our lives and wonder when will we achieve it!!! Well, there is obviously no shortcut to anything and we need to plan everything to make sure we achieve it.  But I can tell you something, a sort of "NO ONE CAN STOP YOU FROM ACHIEVING IT" theory. I have followed this theory in past and will continue doing so in future ahead to achieve whatever I have thought of!! First of all decide what you want to achieve and the moment you have done that, "ANNOUNCE IT TO THE WHOLE WORLD" . When you do this, indirectly you make sure that you have no chance, literally no chance of backing off . Most people back out from achieving their dreams when they fail in their way of doing things or lose hope of reaching the final destination. During this particular moment, we need a kind of push, which takes our ENERGY HOPE AND DETERMINATION  to an

Have you ever asked for something for which you don't actually pay ??? I know most of you have not and some of you might even find this " O' so cheap ", and many of you might be thinking," if I can afford, why should I ask it for free of cost "!!!! So, people, all the answer lies in your thinking itself, because I am talking about asking for something instead of requesting or begging in front of someone for something . There is a Chinese proverb which goes like this- " He who asks may be a fool for five minutes. He who doesn't is a fool for the lifetime ". It may sound funny and it actually is, but trust me it is way more interesting than the so-called attitude of "We can pay for it, we don't need to request him/her for anything". It is not so easy by the way as it may sound because you really need to be good at asking, especially when you want it for free. We all might have heard from our parents while discussing

Every night just before going to sleep we make ourselves a promise, to FOCUS on right things for right cause from next day. But again the next day, everything happens like it used to be. This is because we forgot that the promise we made that NIGHT even required COMPLETE FOCUS . So, next time you plan to FOCUS on something, start right at that moment. List of things which spoils our effort on FOCUSING something and how to prevent them are- Social media - no claps for guessing it right. It has to be social media right on the top of the list. First of all, we need to get our thinking right, that using social media is not at all objectionable or time waste. We have an uncanny habit of scrolling down the pages on social media every time we pick our phone, may it be for calling, checking emails or searching something on google . So, the only thing we need to do is make sure we don't add up social media to almost everything as if it is complimentary . Rather we can allocat

E veryone at one or the other point in his/her life has thought of being EXTRA-ORDINARY . Many of us must have tried to do something in life which is EXTRA-ORDINARY . My dear readers, nothing in this world is EXTRAORDINARY. It is YOU who do certain ORDINARY thing in a different way which makes it EXTRAORDINARY . In the marathon of being EXTRAORDINARY , we all have tried to copy someone or the other who is very successful in life. But copying someone does not make you EXTRAORDINARY , as it has already made that person extra-ordinary from whom you are trying to copy the mantra. If you want to do something extraordinary in life, JUST BE YOU . One day you yourself will do certain ordinary thing in YOUR UNIQUE WAY , which will stand out amongst  the crowd. From the moment we realize that we have brains and can use it, WE STOP USING IT FOR OURSELVES . Because that is the moment we start using the brain TO BE SOMEONE ELSE. Right from childhood to adulthood, we have been trying to

Almost the entire 7.5 billion people in this world possesses a quality which sadly not a single one should possess . Now you may be thinking of which quality I am talking about..! That quality is- JUDGING PEOPLE AROUND YOU . The thing which makes it more painful is, we are not aware that JUDGING someone without knowing anything about them is a BLUNDER . Here I will discuss why we should stop JUDGING anyone with immediate effect- Firstly, we need to get it very clear in our mind that, when we judge someone it indirectly reflects the way we think and the thoughts we possess . We judge people either when we ourselves fail to possess that quality or when we are bound by some limits and could not possess that quality.  Fore example- if someone speaks very fluent English, you will find someone judging him/her by saying "What a show-off"... while if someone is speaks Hindi, you will find someone judging him/her by saying "So cheap, unable to

FEAR is the reason why approximately 40% of the world population is UNEMPLOYED . Biggest mistake anyone can do after being unemployed is , "BLAME OTHERS" .  Everything starts from within, we have to address the problems that we have in ourselves before blaming the people around us and the government for rise in unemployment . The problem which I am talking about is the emotion of FEAR . It lies within us, and most importantly we have 100% control on our FEAR . If we want we can eliminate it within a fraction of a second. It just requires a sound and clear mind to take a strong decision and next moment FEAR is gone. Now you must be thinking, how can FEAR be the reason for UNEMPLOYMENT ..!!! It is. In fact all the drama starts from here. So, for eliminating UNEMPLOYMENT, FEAR has to be eliminated. How to eliminate fear , link-https://loveforlife007.blogspot.in/2017/09/dont-invest-in-property-named-fear.html First of all you have to flush your thou

What is FEAR ?? Fear is a state of mind, in which the mind stops functioning in the normal way and forgets about the super power it possesses. Fear is our own creation . We create this in our mind, so that we may find an escape from the difficulties of life. FEAR is like a FLY . Have you noticed how a fly comes to you again and again, when you try to remove it or blow it away!!!! But when you allow the fly to sit on your body, it may sit there for a second or two, but ultimately it flies away without causing any harm . Similar is the case with FEAR . The more we try to avoid it, the more it will annoy us and ultimately make us helpless.So, stop running away from it, instead do something which causes FEAR TO FEAR YOU . Because just like a fly does cause any harm when you allow it to sit on your skin, fear will not cause any harm to you when you make efforts to face the fear . First of all we have to accept it, if we really FEAR something. Unless we accept it, we can'

What is FAILURE ? When we are unable to achieve what we want, we call it as FAILURE . When things don't come easily in our way, we consider it as FAILURE . When we are clueless about what is happening, we call it as FAILURE . SO, it's time we change this old definition of FAILURE ... let us modify it, after all we are in 21st century. Failure is a part of SUCCESS, rather I should say it is the beginning stage of ROAD TO SUCCESS . SUCCESS has 3 stages- FAILURE - We will all face this stage at one point of our lifetime, no matter to which field we belong to. Our journey to SUCCESS remains incomplete without experiencing failure. We all will experience failure, but the point is how one EVOLVES out of this shows the TEMPERAMENT of that person. we should let failure affect us only in a positive way. it should be used as a guide to learn from the mistakes it should not crush our morale it should not shatter our dreams and hopes.