LEARN AND GAIN SOMETHING EVERY TIME YOU ARE REJECTED

Before we get into the whole of this topic and find a solution to face and overcome REJECTION, we have to be very clear in our mind whether REJECTION is good or bad!!!

There is two kind of REJECTIONS- GOOD REJECTION and BAD REJECTION. It is obvious we who need to decide which one is what and face the situation accordingly. With time everything gets clearer and we are at ease with both the REJECTIONS and deal with them accordingly.

The first step after REJECTION should be ANALYZING instead of UNNECESSARILY REACTING to that situation which most of us, most often do. REJECTION no doubt sounds a lot like a negative term, but it has a huge amount of positive effect in our life. The moment we analyze the situation, we get to know whether it is a good rejection or bad rejection. Now it goes in two directions  -

• Firstly, if it is a GOOD REJECTION, then we stop worrying about it with a hope that something good might happen in near future. We overcome this type of REJECTIONS easily with no extra effort and downpour of emotions. But even in this instance, if the effect or the positive side of GOOD REJECTION is not seen in near term, in no time we start losing HOPE and all our confidence gets shattered. This kind of rejection can be more appropriately termed as a short delay in getting WHAT YOU WANT FROM LIFE. So, from my perspective, I would say that this kind of REJECTION teaches you something only when there is a delay in knowing the positive effect of REJECTION.
• Now coming to BAD REJECTION, it is the one which teaches you something new about life and at the same time, it teaches you how to overcome REJECTION. Now after analyzing when you realize that this REJECTION is once and for all has brought everything to a standstill and there is no hope in near future, YOU MUST TAKE A PAUSE AND TRY TO REINVENT AND RECREATE YOURSELF. Now that you have faced rejection, a bad one or even the worst one which in no way has done any good to you, remember this is the moment which you had been waiting for and it is MADE FOR YOU -SPECIALLY MANUFACTURED FOR YOU...so just grab it and move ahead. 

We don't understand the importance of bad rejection because it does not show any effect in short term, medium or long term. It has an effect, a life-changing one on our entire lifespan.

Rejection should be used for the betterment of yourself, not for the depreciation of your own self. Every rejection is an opportunity to reinvent yourself, recreate yourself, modify yourself and the most important is have a one to one conversation with yourself. 

Rejection can be termed as that kind of medicine which may taste bitter for an instance but gives you the best relief from all the pain you are suffering.

"GET REJECTED BUT DON'T GET DEJECTED"