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YOUTH - The humans who carry confidence in their sleeves. MODERN YOUTH - The humans who carry confidence with the mixture of knowledge and intelligence under their sleeves. There used to be a time when more than half of the young generation had a lot of confidence in themselves, but their bad luck was that they didn't know how to use that immense amount of confidence for their own good. Now the times have changed, with the sense of realization and awareness coming into play. That very young generation have modernized themselves in a way, which has the amalgamation of both the future and past i.e the Young and the Old generation. These present-day people are not just energetic and enthusiastic about what they want to do, at the same time they are aware and calm about the precautions that need to be taken in doing the work they want to do. Now comes the most important part!!! On what basis I am speaking and writing this - there must be some data or...

Yes!! You read it right. How much do you love yourself? Strange!!! Ever thought of asking this question to yourself!! Maybe you didn't feel it necessary to ask such a cliche question. I mean who does not love themselves. Everybody does. Right !! Or maybe not!! Okay, no problem!! We will find out. We all have someone in our life, for whom we can go to any extent to make them happy. May it be the mother, father, daughter, son, friend, partner etc. It can be anyone. But how far would you go, to make yourself happy??? Sounding selfish!!! Selfish is not when you do something good for yourself, selfishness is when you stop doing something for someone else...! You work an extra hour almost alternate day so that your boss or manager is happy!! But when did you work an extra hour on your body, so that you can feel happy at the end of it!! You plan trips to religious places every time so that your parents can enjoy!!! But when did you last planned a trip to a plac...

Being You - This is the most difficult part of today's busy world. We all are living a life, in which we portray a character of someone else almost the entire duration in which are mentally active. This means we are forcing ourselves to lead a life of someone who we are not. Doing this may make us mentally strong, but it starts destroying us internally once and forever. Day by Day and bit by bit, we lose our own perception and start forgetting who we are and what our actual motive is. We always complain about the life we are living.  But do we have any right to do so? I mean who are we complaining to? To ourselves? If yes, then it's fine. But if we are complaining the whole thing to somebody else and blaming someone else for the situation we are in and for the kind of lifestyle we are living, then we need to think all over again. Because it is no one but we, who are responsible for our situation. We chose to be someone else and adjusted to tha...

Love - The moment we hear this four-letter beautiful word, the world suddenly seems to be a far better place than it was a few moments ago...! This is the beauty of love . The kind of feeling it provides and the way it encapsulates you with the bubbles of emotions and happiness , it cannot be explained in mere words ..! But some people consider Love and Crush to be two different emotion and feeling. But it is not so. Crush - As the name suggests is the compressed form of Love . Crush can be also called the trailer or the trial period for Love . It is like the return and cancellation policy that the company provides. You can use for 10-30 days and if you do not like, return the product. Same is the case with Love and Crush . During your trial period, you can decide on whether it is suitable for you to confirm it to the status of Love or trying someone else....! Like every product has a different return policy , every Crush has a different period of c...

                                                                                                                             Procrastination - It is not a habit, but an attitude...! An attitude which when exceeds a certain limit becomes negative and deadly. This kind of attitude when becomes an addiction, have the ability to kill your effectiveness and efficiency. Ever thought why do we procrastinate things? It can be either due to two of the below reasons- You are afraid of taking up the work. You think it is not that important to be done for the time being. If you are among the ones who procrastinate things due to 1st reason, then it is absolutely ...

A day well spent is a day added to your short span of life. A day wasted is a day reduced from your long span of life. Choose wisely , before you kick-start your day. Our life consists of a bundle of a few days which is distributed in the form of packets of 24 hours . We are not provided with this bundle of energy all at a time, it has to be earned from our ALMIGHTY. A single packet at a time at least. This packet of energy is ours, it is we who need to decide how to utilize this day and get ready for the next packet which might come our way. So, here are a few thoughts I would like to share with all my readers on how to plan a day and make it count. I don't know if it is all right and if it is the best advice one can give to someone, but what I am sure is that it has helped me make my life easy and peaceful . SO, here it starts- PLAN - First thing first we should not forget to make a list of the High priority and Least priority activities...

MINIMALISM - Is it a blessing or a curse ???                              Is it a magic you want to experience or a bad dream you want to keep away??? I don't know what is your take on the above two questions....! No matter what you feel about MINIMALISM , just be here with this post for not more than 5 minutes and I bet it will change your thought process on how you look towards MINIMALISM . There is no particular definition of MINIMALISM , but it can be put together into words as a path you chose to live with when you live without the material comfort . Minimalism is a kind of lifestyle where you don't have a love for the luxurious items in your life. In the last 5 months, I realized the importance of MINIMALISM . I was never the one who would have supported minimalism , especially if I am earning a handful of sufficient money. Being in the capital city , it never gave me the luxury of...

H umans, the most confused species in the entire universe . I write this for a reason. Have you seen an animal, first chasing you, then stopping and thinking whether he shall chase you not and then the next moment starts chasing again? It is not that they do not have the intelligence , it is just that they know when and where to use it. On the other hand, we the humans, having a tremendous amount of intelligence which is almost unmeasurable, still, we waste it on mere overthinking and confusions . Have you ever thought when the situation of confusion starts and when you are successful in doing things in one go ? No, because you were you busy in solving the issues which were caused due to your confusion . So, here is the solution. 'It all starts from the moment when you say YES for the things which deep inside you do not want to do or be a part of , but still being humans you have so much of care and emotions that you do not want to hurt the one standing in fro...

Mood Swings -  What do you understand by it???? These two words have become a patent for almost every person nowadays to get rid of any situation which they feel is not able to be rectified...! MOOD SWING  is your virtual enemy , who stands with you for every mistake you make. The friend who encourages you to commit the same mistake the same way, again and again, is not your friend my dear friend ...!  MOOD SWINGS can be defined as a situation when we are bored of our own self, so we try to enact someone Else's attitude in our own style.  If that is so, why not use the MOOD SWING in our own favor ...???? Whenever you feel like you are bored with yourself and want some variety and spice in life, just for a second pause and feel the air within you. It will help you to chose the right person to enact , who can entertain you and your surroundings...! Mood Swing is a general term which we will more often c...

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DREAM - In simple word, dreams are made up of small little elements of our day to day life which is able to grab our attention in no time. A dream can be a beautiful one - which we would like to feel and experience again and again in our life. A dream can be a dreadful one -  which we just want to forget within a flash of time and sometimes it is so terrifying that we fear to close our two little tiny eyes the next night. <script async src="//pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js"></script> <ins class="adsbygoogle" style="display:block; text-align:center;" data-ad-layout="in-article" data-ad-format="fluid" data-ad-client="ca-pub-9506095024592281" data-ad-slot="2177286641"></ins> <script> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); </script> A dream can be a life-changing one - which defines both our pro...

I would like to start this post with a world famous quote - OPEN YOUR EYES AND LOOK WITHIN. ARE YOU SATISFIED WITH THE LIFE YOU'RE LIVING??? - BOB MARLEY. I chose this very quote because it contains the entire story which I am going to talk about. SATISFACTION has nothing to do with the money you have and the materialistic things you possess. The moment you dare to look within you for finding an answer to the above question, you will realise it all.  You can anytime be satisfied in the outer world , the moment you reach a six-digit salary, buy a four-wheeler car, own a 3BHK apartment, have two lovely kids with a beautiful wife/husband. This all looks great to go until the moment you are in a crisis and you realise these things are not enough to bring you out of that crisis which has fallen upon you.  But what is this crisis???  Can't it be solved with all the money you have and the things you possess!!! Can't the love of your wife/husband ...

We all want to live a life KING SIZE . We dream of a life which is  SMOOTH, HAPPY, PEACEFUL, CALM AND PLEASANT . Yes, we do crave for a BEAUTIFUL piece of life. WAIT A MOMENT!!! Why do we need to crave for it??? What's wrong with the current phase of life??? Isn't it harmonious!!! Isn't the situation in your favour!!! So, who is responsible for this?? Don't you have the control of the situations in your hands ??? Many questions asked, but not a single answered. So, let me begin with answering all of them right from the beginning. We crave for a BEAUTIFUL piece of life because we have a HABIT of craving for things which we don't have. The moment we stop craving for a BIGGER AND BETTER life, we will start finding this piece of life equally BEAUTIFUL . In this current phase of life, we have a habit of finding the CAUSE AFTER THE EFFECT HAS SHOWN IT'S RESULTS . But we want our life to be in a phase where we can control the CAUSE TO GUIDE T...

The whole world is constantly trying to fight the chattering going around them. Chattering may be about them or it may be to demise the character of someone or it may be about the different problems that the country is facing. When someone keeps talking about you, about your character and your profession, then you are left with just two options. FACE IT i.e GIVE IT BACK RIGHT ON THEIR FACE - This is the easier way out, as it helps you release all your frustrations. But you must be again ready to take it on you when you throw a word or two. This might then continue for long as both of them tries to satisfy their ego. It actually becomes A WAR OF EGO .  IGNORE LIKE YOU WANT TO IGNORE THE STREET DOGS BARKING AT YOU - This step requires a serious amount of courage. You have to do a lot of homework before you actually can reach that stage of SERENE AND CALMNESS to ignore the shit. You will understand both the steps only if you have ever noticed the behaviour of d...

W HAT IS ADDICTION??? Addiction is in simple terms can be described as a situation when you don't have any control over what you are doing and still enjoying it. For me, addiction is anything which leads you to a path at the end of which you will surely regret of doing that thing. The word ADD in ADDICTION refers to the same addition which you keep on adding to the activity which should have been stopped a long time before. Before we discuss the solution of getting rid of ADDICTION , it is very important to discuss GOOD ADDICTION AND BAD ADDICTION . So, first of all, it should be very clear that there is no such thing called GOOD ADDICTION and BAD ADDICTION . You can never term anything as a GOOD ADDICTION as long as you lose control over what you are doing . I feel ADDICTION is very similar to CANCER . Like CANCER , once it enters your body or attacks your body, it destroys you completely or if you want to defeat CANCER then you have to change yourself completel...

BLISSFUL means IMMENSE AMOUNT OF HAPPINESS AND PEACE IN LIFE, amount of which is not even countable . A blissful life is not like a period of sadness, followed by a period of happiness, then again a period of happiness and so on. This period of happiness and sadness in life exist in life when you try to find happiness in something or someone . So, the one who makes you feel happy is around you, you feel happy and the moment that someone who makes you feel happy moves away from you, it makes you feel sad. Look, before you find the solution of HOW TO MAKE LIFE BLISSFUL , you need to find out the reason WHAT KEEPS YOU AWAY FROM MAKING YOUR LIFE BLISSFUL ?? So, after observing a lot of people around me and in places I found out that there is the only single thing which keeps you away from making your life blissful. YOU always CARRY A BAGGAGE OF BEING SOMEONE ELSE . This is the real problem with you. It stops you from being YOU . When you try to be someone else...

In my last post, I talked about the ill-effects of crackers on you and the people around you and how it dampens the excitement of some of the people because of your negligence. Link to the previous post - https://loveforlife007.blogspot.in/2017/10/diwali-why-you-need-to-change-style-of.html So, the most important question is - If not crackers, then what ??? How do we make Diwali equally cheerful without crackers !!! In this blog, I will share with you, all the ways through which we can celebrate Diwali in a grander and greater way. By saying NO TO CRACKERS you will surely save a hell lot of money. So, you can use that amount in other ways effectively to celebrate this Diwali . These are a few ways, which according to me can make your Diwali this year more satisfying than ever - Buy the best dress for yourself to wear on Diwali eve - What?? Someone is saying irrespective of whether we burn CRACKERS or not, we always buy the best clothes for ourselves . So, this i...

N ow whatever I am going to write today will only be meaningful and successful, if and only if the people, especially the youngsters take a step to take up this cause and encourage others around them to follow the same. Try it for once, just this time and if you feel the difference both within you and around you, then go on with the idea and if not, then you can surely go back to what you used to do . POLLUTION - This term I am sure is not new to anyone of you living in whichever part of the world right now. This term is trending almost throughout the year. In fact,  this is the most talking about word after "SEX" . So, why you the people, with the help of whom this EARTH is made up of, is not ready to do your bit to minimise POLLUTION. When people talk about SEX, they also feel an urge to convert the same into action and get results, so why do you people just end up talking and making comments about POLLUTION ??? Why not do the same in case of POLLUTION, take up th...

EXPECTATION is the cause of all bitterness in any relationship . What is EXPECTATION ??? EXPECTATION is nothing more than COMPULSION . It is a process where you try to forcibly make someone do something by coating your demands with sugary substance . EXPECTATIONS are not bad until you keep it only to yourself. Expecting something from yourself is no bad thing. You have every right to expect everything from you . Time and again you can ask yourself to do something for yourself. But why do you have such HIGH EXPECTATIONS from somebody??? In fact, who are you to make someone act or do something the way you like to ?? I would say, the one who tries to fulfil everyone's expectations is the real culprit. Once you live up to someone's expectation-  Will they in future not expect anything from you ??  Surely they will, in fact, the expectation level will increase in future . Because people are never satisfied with what they get.  Durin...

DO YOU KNOW WHAT DESIRE IS??? DESIRE IS NOTHING BUT A FORM OF ENERGY . This is the same energy which keeps our body parts together and helps it to keep moving 24*7. If it is so, then why do we sometimes feel so confused and frustrated  because of the same desire!!!! This is where you got it wrong my dear readers. Desires don't make you feel frustrated or hopeless . Desires can be viewed in two forms, namely - FULFILLED DESIRES UNFULFILLED DESIRES .  So, the cause of all the problem, frustrations, and misery is this UNFULFILLED DESIRE . Have you ever been in a situation when you had felt unhappy after fulfilling your desire which you had been wanting to achieve!!! Obviously not, not even for a single second did it cause any trouble in your life. In fact, once you fulfil a desire, you tend to forget all the problems and difficulties you faced while reaching the endpoint and finally achieving it . We need to find a solution on how to deal with this UNFUL...