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QUALITY OR QUANTITY?? A BIG UNANSWERED QUESTION



Here I have a story to answer this question and solve the dilemma...

It is a story of a boy (12) who moved to Delhi for studies.
So in his early days , he being new to the big popular city was unaware of anything and was in search of few friends .(Focus is on QUANTITY)

Then he met a girl in his tuition classes and in one of their conversations,
GIRL: how is it to get accustomed to the new culture??
BOY: it's a bit difficult, but am getting used to it.
GIRL: so have you made friends??
BOY: yes , but only a few ... 2 to 3 friends and one of them is you😊
GIRL: never count the number of friends , because in the end you will look for QUALITY of that single friend, no matter what QUANTITY of friends you have around you...☺

Few  months ago I met that boy (24) again on his birthday, and I was shocked to get his reply..!
I asked him , how many people wished you on your birthday??
Boy said: You know bro, it doesn't matter how many people wish me, for me if anything matters is    " HOW WELL THAT ONE BEST FRIEND OF MINE WISH ME ", because that one wish will be equivalent to the millions of wishes we receive here and there.😉

TIME HAS MADE HIM CLEAR THE DILEMMA BETWEEN QUANTITY AND QUALITY...!
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