LOVE FOR LIFE

I remember my darkest nightmare was REGRET . What is REGRET ? When your heart and mind have different opinion on something you have done or something you should have done but failed to do, creates a feeling of REGRET . Since my childhood days until now before I discovered how to prevent this feeling of REGRET , this used to be the most difficult situation of my life, because I had no idea how to deal with the feeling of REGRET . It used to kill me from within completely...it did not show any mercy on me. As we all know nothing lasts for ever. In 2016 an  incident happened in my life, which changed the entire thing for me. It went like this. I used to travel through metro everyday for attending my college studies. It was during last semester when I met with this man (a man wearing dark black goggles-aviator), this was what my reaction was seeing that man. I was standing in a crowded metro with a wallet in my back pocket and in the background there was a announcement b...

SELF CONFIDENCE is like CALCIUM of our life Just the way we need CALCIUM in our body, to stand up and get going actively, likewise to move ahead and live on this exponentially evolving planet we need SELF CONFIDENCE . A person does not come into this world, with SELF CONFIDENCE built or feed within them, it needs to be evolved , grown all by ourselves.  SELF CONFIDENCE is like the HEART of any activity . For performing any activity, we need to have a lot of self confidence within ourselves, because anything performed half heartedly leads only to failure . There are many ways by which you can improve your SELF CONFIDENCE - performing exercises helps you to remain fit, which in turn keeps you boosted the whole day and as a result you will feel SELF CONFIDENT . introspection everyday for at least 5 mins can help you to cut on your negatives and add the positives in your life, which can immensely make you SELF CONFIDENT . expressing yourself loud and ...

Isn't the question really musing? Yes it is. But the main part is, how many of you have really thought of this question??? Answer is we have never ever thought of this. It's not your fault, because this busy world doesn't allow you to rest for a while where you can think deeply!!!! We all say- we are living happily we are living our life to the fullest we are enjoying our time  But do we really??? We don't even remember the last time we went to the bed completely calm with no thoughts pinching us on the back of our mind . Even while we are on the verge of sleeping, we think of solving a new problem the next day. It's like switching a machine ON and OFF . Wake up, go for job or business or school or anything, return home , go for gym, swimming, etc have dinner and go to bed. Isn't it how a machine functions !!!! We switch it ON, it performs its repetitive tasks and then we switch it OFF and it goes to SLEEP . You may LOVE this today, LIKE it t...

SUCCESS - How do you define success??? Everyone has go their own definition of success, but one thing is common in each and every definition- it has something to do with NAME FAME MONEY . Our success should not be defined by how much money we earn or how many people recognize us . Because it has got no limits. Neither money nor fame. How can you decide a person earning 1 lac a month is more successful or a person earning 1 crore a month...! If money had been the definition of being successful, then I guess no one in this world is permanently successful, because a person who has lot of money today may not have the same in future or vice-versa . Infact the day we stop running after money, we are way much more successful than half of the world population . According to me, the SUCCESS of a person should be defined by her/his THOUGHT - A good positive THOUGHT once cultivated and feed in the mind, will always remain positive. According to me SUCCESS should be determined by...

YOUR TIME - It's completely yours. No one in this world can snatch a single second from you, without your consent. The worth of time is lot more than anyone can even imagine...it is that property, which you have in your name, right from the moment you entered this world. This property, the value of which if realized accordingly, is worth BILLIONS . You may loose money today, you may gain money tomorrow, but time... time will always be constant, it will always be with you in the same amount FOREVER . We must treat TIME as a GUEST (Atithi Devo Bhava- Guest is Equivalent to God) , though TIME stays with us forever like FAMILY. That is the importance of TIME . Like, how it used to be in earlier times or even today- we used to become excited, whenever we heard about some GUEST arriving in our home... We used to jump with JOY in our childhood days, our eyes used to shine like stars... No matter GUEST arriving in our home is KIND OR UNKIND, we used to have smile on our face ...

MYTH - We can only be SELF DEPENDENT after we complete our education and earn at least a DEGREE from reputed college. TRUTH - We can be SELF DEPENDENT , right from the word GO . The moment our mind is prepared to understand the difference between right and wrong , we are ready to be SELF DEPENDENT ... We must be ready to grab that opportunity. SELF DEPENDENCE , is not just about earning money by yourself. It is about taking responsibilities on your shoulders, exploring the outer world all by yourself and in doing so, make your own living. Being SELF DEPENDENT has nothing to do with whether you belong to rich or a poor family, whether you are in need of money or not..! Because here I am not talking about contributing in a FINANCIAL WAY , but something much larger and bigger than that. Earning money is not that difficult task... today or tomorrow everyone will surely earn loads of money. Important point is, as soon as our mind starts functioning the way it should do, we mu...

Let's see, how our life works ??? We wake up every morning (Because we have to), in some or the other way... spend the entire day somehow to earn our living...but just after spending half of our day, we start thinking ,when will this day end so that we can go back to our home sweet home and relax and go to sleep ....finally the day ends ,we sleep and again wake up somehow the next day...and CYCLE REPEATS . But our life should not repeat the cycle in the same way... rather it should work in this way just with a change. First of all we have to FIND A REASON IN LIFE TO WAKE UP EVERY MORNING WITH RENEWED ENERGY AND ENTHUSIASM ... the REASON SO STRONG , that no TIREDNESS can defeat ...then see the change.. you will sleep every night, not because you want some PEACE from hectic day of work , but you will sleep, because you want to give your body some rest, so that it could function with same enthusiasm and zeal the next day to LIVE UP TO YOUR EXPECTATIONS, that you have from your...

CAN WE BE HAPPY - Without any REASON to be   HAPPY ? Without any MATERIAL to make us HAPPY ? Without any PERSON to make us HAPPY ? The answer is a big NOOOO according to what YOU  think...not a single one will deny this FACT . But do we really need a REASON to be HAPPY ?? The answer again is a big NOOOO but only according to ME . So, why is there this difference..! The difference is, if SOMEONE OR SOMETHING makes us HAPPY, that is nothing but TEMPORARY HAPPINESS, because either today or tomorrow THAT REASON, PERSON OR THING is going to PHASE OUT slowly and gradually... similarly when you can be HAPPY without any REASON... just by being the WAY YOU ARE, that is the STATE OF CAUSELESS HAPPINESS - PERMANENT HAPPINESS . The moment we learn to be HAPPY  without any damn REASON ... our PURPOSE of LIFE will change as a whole. A person who has to depend on others to be HAPPY ... how can he/she spread HAPPINESS  in a place which requires ...

THOUGHT itself has a whole lot of power in it...so, imagine when the THOUGHTS will combine with POSITIVITY , what kind of change it can make in LIFE . We all have a lot of people around us, who can spread NEGATIVE THOUGHTS faster than FIRE...THIS IS TRUE. But, let me expose you to the other side of story, which no one ever told you... POSITIVE THOUGHTS can spread faster than the speed of LIGHT . MIRACLE happens when POSITIVE THOUGHT combine with POSITIVE ENERGY . It is true, majority around us have a habit of being PESSIMIST in every situation of life...they simply don't know how to think in a positive way...but even a single OPTIMIST in a group can create POSITIVE RESONANCE in that group. No matter how prepared we are, but we still search for that one POSITIVE advice or one POSITIVE comment from the people around us, when we want to start something NEW . I request all my VIEWERS to spread this message as much as possible...don't allow NEGATIVE THOUGHTS to ...

First of all let me be very clear about this blog...here i am not talking just about "GF BF" LOVE . It is just about LOVE ... IT DOES NOT NEED ANY DAMN TAG. LOVE is LOVE , no matter with whom you fall in love... No EMOTION can be as PURE as LOVE is . LOVE has its own AWESOMENESS ... so it never requires any EXTERNAL DECORATIONS . For some people LOVE is all about showing off in public- PDA . For some people LOVE is all about showing LOVE behind closed doors . This above two EXTREMISM is the real problem. LOVE is not meant for ONE place... because it cannot be decided, at what time and at what place we should make   LOVE ...it must be EVERYWHERE . LOVE is an EMOTION - THE STRONGEST EMOTION which must FLOW . Their is no offence in PDA , but it really matters how you show off...! LOVE is not all about BEING INTIMATE . Making love in public can be even more PURER - hold the hand of someone you love, so tight that she/he has a belief th...

ANGER - the cause of all DESTRUCTION . A good manager without being able to control her/his ANGER , will only lead to the downfall of the company . It can destroy any BUSINESS, RELATIONSHIP and FAMILY . The main cause of ANGER is- "Things don't happen , the way we want it to happen...so our mind starts running in different directions and as a result is unable to control itself... and finally to get rid of the complex situation makes an OUTBURST ... but in actual the outburst only complicates the situation and creates TROUBLE . Effect of ANGER  after outburst- suppose the outburst of ANGER came at a time when the project was in a final stage, it creates a sort of confusion among the employees about your character... and they may not support you in future for any project. if the outburst of ANGER  happens in an early stage of ARRANGE MARRIAGE OR LOVE MARRIAGE , it can create a whole lot of wrong impression in the mind of the other PARTNER ... and she or he may ...

WORLD-THE SOURCE We all have a habit of criticizing everything happening in this WORLD. We may or may not have any idea, but we do have our viewpoints for sure . Neither me nor you, can judge the world as a good or bad place to live in... because it's not our property... we do not have any control on earth...it will behave , the way it is bound to. If we create a beautiful picture of the WORLD in our own mind, the world will start behaving in the same way. There is no ROCKET SCIENCE behind this... positive people RESONATES with positive viewpoints... When we try to look at the positive...positive things will find us... when we try to look at the negative .. negative things will come close to us. THE WAY WE WILL NURTURE OUR INNER WORLD- THE SAME WAY WE WILL BE ABLE TO VIEW THE OUTER WORLD . The world is a beautiful palace, which is working with 100 percent efficiency 24*7, and that is the reason we are all alive today . So, instead of criticizing the world- for be...

TIREDNESS is just an ILLUSION . We don't get TIRED . When we are fed up doing something repeatedly or doing something which we don't love to do, our BODY and MIND gives up on that. And we think , we are actually tired. Next time whenever you feel tired, try to figure out the task which made you feel tired. Then ask a question to yourself , "Do I love to do this task"??? I am 100 per cent sure the answer would be NO ..! Because the things we love to do never makes us feel TIRED... our mind remains 100 percent active while doing things we love to do, but when we are forced to do or we force ourselves to do something we don't love doing- our mind is only 30 percent active, so we FEEL TIRED . Think of the times when your fingers do not feel tired of texting your LOVE non stop throughout the day and nights... but in a similar similar situation , if you have to text someone you don't love... then your fingers GIVE UP ...! You can share your story ,...

In this WORLD , there are three categories of people- One who follows the INTELLIGENT MIND Second who follows the EMOTIONAL SOUL Third ( negligible in percentage) who follows a path between the MIND & SOUL . Our SOUL may be very emotional at times, but very well knows the difference between RIGHT & WRONG . We all have been in a situation, where we were on the verge of doing something wrong "FOR SILLY PLEASURES" , but our SOUL clearly gives us a SIGNAL to stop right at that moment...but we do not stop, because our MIND encourages us to do. So, if we are able to listen to the voice of INNOCENT SOUL  and then use our ROCKET MIND to do anything , we all will surely move in the RIGHT DIRECTION and can restrain ourselves from committing mistakes. We can FOOL our MINDS but can never FOOL our SOULS ...so acting just by thoughts of MIND may lead us to trouble... SO my viewers, "FOLLOW YOUR SOUL TO USE YOUR MIND"

  MEDITATION   - almost everyone has got their own definition of meditation.  A very popular rumor about meditation is that, it is practiced only by people of old age group. Another popular rumor is that, meditation is only for those who suffers from depression . MEDITATION , in simple language is a way of keeping the NON STOP CONTINUOUSLY FLOWING COMPLEX MIND empty at least for a few seconds if not more. Doing this everyday  for few minutes will help you be in PEACE WITH YOURSELF . Just a few minutes of early morning meditation INCREASES THE FOCUS OF MIND EXPONENTIALLY. MEDITATION IS PERHAPS THE BEST  TECHNIQUE EVER DISCOVERED FOR SELF IMPROVEMENT.

  DO WE EVER WONDER, WHY WE ARE ALWAYS SHORTAGE OF TIME ??? The shortage of time starts all from the moment we fall asleep. It is equally important to plan your sleep... we also need to plan the things,we should do before we go to bed. T he nurturing of our eyes and brain , before we go off to sleep, determines the whole of the next day . Most important thing is, we should not expose our eyes to the screen of any electronic equipment say mobile phones etc. Make sure you keep a gap of at least 10 minutes between using an electronic device and going to bed...it will help us keep our eyes cool and clear. Waking up early gives you that extra hour, which no money , no hard work can buy . It gives an hour of mental peace and calmness. Our mind functions the best just after we wake up. I t is in a sleepy mood even after few minutes of waking up, so the human mind will listen to whatever you say in that sleepy mood, because it is not in a mood to argue with you ...  ...

LIFE is our SOULMATE , LIFE is our BEST FRIEND . We wake up everyday with a baggage of millions and billions of dreams in our little mind . We have 100 % faith in our life, that one day I will achieve all of my dreams. Life is very very similar to a best friend, who demands nothing in return, and continues to STAND UP TALL in all the difficult situations. In a bad situation, when things doesn't go our way, we start cursing life for that situation... not realizing it stood by us till today.  It is very important to thank life once every day for being with us . The way LIFE takes care of us, even we should nurture our LIFE with all LOVE AND CARE ...no matter what life throws at us... A GOOD DAY or  A BAD DAY ... because at the end of it THE END IS GOING TO BE AWESOME .

First of all, I would like to request every one to share this particular post as much as possible. Don't just read it, be a part of it . We, men have to accept this FACT . Infact it is a LAW . LAW is anything which is true in any case, in any situation, for ALL . So, it is a law that, BEING A GIRL IS NOT EASY . We must RESPECT  them for what they are. STOP ACTING LIKE GIRLS-( MYTH-INSULT,TRUTH-COMPLIMENT)

WE all want to be CALM, COMPOSED, ENERGETIC AND HAPPY . These may seem very heavy task to achieve all at once. But every question has a solution ..! So, even this has a very simple solution. All we have to do is, Help someone from whom you don't want anything in return. When you do this, you get a big surprising million dollar smile on their face. This SMILE, will help you get all the above mentioned qualities at one go.

The planet earth will be, so more meaningful and beautiful , when we relieve ourselves from the all the limits and boundations we have set in our mind. We cannot think beyond a level, if we put limits and restrictions in our actions. REACTIONS  will be FRUITFUL only when ACTIONS are done without LIMITS .

This is how we human beings are.☺ In last years, we have been in a hyper mode, where we don't believe in simple things . We like doing things which is difficult, not because we love doing difficult things. We do it because there is a speculation, " GREAT SUCCESS COMES BY DOING DIFFICULT TASKS ". But sometimes, just once in a while, try to give importance to simple things and show some trust on those simple tasks... and see how it rewards you in future .

I have been asked this question , a hell lot of time...and am sure, even you all have come across this question many a times...! When I was a child, I used to answer with huge confidence- " I want to become an ENGINEER ". But as time passed , time made me realize two things- One, we shouldn't be described by our qualifications and designations . Two, we should be described by the qualities we possess for being a good human being . So, next time someone ask you this question, just remember to describe yourself . Because at the end of it , if anything matters is , HOW GOOD A PERSON YOU ARE .

Often in this fast moving world, we forget the importance of nature . If anything nature wants from us is, LOVE . Everyone just for once , try and give love to nature and see what wonders it gives you in return . NATURE is as selfless as one can be . It needs nothing but love . Nourish the mother nature with love, mind you guys, it will never forget you.

The day each one of us in this vast LITTLE world , start improving ourselves ... instead of trying to find fault in people around us... This world will be a vast big PALACE . Self improvement helps us to bring out the better of ourselves. Better than what we were yesterday . Improve yourself in a way, that your future should pat your back for your past achievements .

ISN'T IT RELATABLE ???? I know it is , for sure☺ Many of us misconstrue these lines and fail to understand what does it really mean...! It does not mean that , you should stop planning and preparing for a better tomorrow , but you should make sure , not to leave behind those small crazy moments which could have made unforgettable memories . Make your present so BEAUTIFUL , so that you have the confidence to make your future look GORGEOUS .

We human life , crave for that final destination ⇒ success , but we don't realize that the happiness of the destination lasts only for a few seconds or hours or days , depending on how big the achievement is. And again we go back to the mundane life. So just imagine , if we start living the journey which will help us achieve those bigger goals and aims...we will stop craving for that one moment and in turn enjoy the whole JOURNEY . It will not only help us live life to the fullest, but also give us the courage to STAND UP again and be prepared for another BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY to achieve a new GOAL .

LIFE is simpler than what it seems to be. Life becomes easier and joyful when we do everything with a good intention , not just for the good of ourselves but most importantly for those who are around us. When we are kind and generous for someone , "According to Newtons third law of motion"⇒ we will for sure receive kindness and generousness in return...!

It is really really important to understand this particular concept, to live a life full of happiness and freedom . Every person has a list of priorities , may it be professional or personal. So, when one of you stand low down in XYZ's priority list, don't cry over it . 😢 Simply take an EXIT . May be someone is waiting for you to make their top most PRIORITY. 😊

Here I have a story to answer this question and solve the dilemma... It is a story of a boy (12) who moved to Delhi for studies. So in his early days , he being new to the big popular city was unaware of anything and was in search of few friends .(Focus is on QUANTITY ) Then he met a girl in his tuition classes and in one of their conversations, GIRL: how is it to get accustomed to the new culture?? BOY: it's a bit difficult, but am getting used to it. GIRL: so have you made friends?? BOY: yes , but only a few ... 2 to 3 friends and one of them is you😊 GIRL: never count the number of friends , because in the end you will look for QUALITY of that single friend, no matter what QUANTITY of friends you have around you...☺ Few  months ago I met that boy (24) again on his birthday, and I was shocked to get his reply..! I asked him , how many people wished you on your birthday?? Boy said: You know bro, it doesn't matter how many people wish me, for me if anyth...

Whenever anything bad happens in life, we handle it in two different ways- First , we overreact to that situation and stop looking for the reason behind the whole situation. (85% of the people react in this way) Second, instantly we start finding the reason behind the miss happenings ..but when we could not find anything good behind what has happened... we loose heart and give up...!              (13% of the people react in this way) So, next time you don't find a reason for anything bad happened with you, remember, there is something big, life changing moment awaiting for you, which is beyond your imagination...! 

The very day, we understand the necessity of telling those LIES which never existed , just for the sake of hiding these unnecessary  real truths in any given situation, OUR LIFE WILL CHANGE FROM BEING HONEST TO BEING SELFLESS...!

Make sure you make your LIFE dance to the beats you want, OR Life will start to make you dance to HER own tunes ...!   ♯♯

Happiness according to me is a COMMUNICABLE DISEASE. If one single person in every family or at least in every locality decides to spread happiness , it will soon be transmitted from one person to another in no time, just an effort to smile in every situation of life, can create wonders ...! Bringing a smile on each others face brings happiness within us... when we help someone in need, it gives us an immense amount of happiness. It is very rightly said that - Money cannot buy HAPPINESS, but the story does not end here... No one ever said that, YOU CAN  BRING HAPPINESS AND JOY IN THE LIFE OF MILLIONS OF POOR KIDS, IF YOU CAN BUY SOMETHING FOR THEM WITH THE SAME MONEY.

⊼ IT IS VERY RIGHTLY SAID , THAT WE ALL SHOULD HAVE A PLAN TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS IN LIFE....BUT NO ONE EVER SAID OR INSISTED US TO MAKE A "PLAN -B" 🔰 It does not not matter how confident you are about your PLAN-A , but according to me, it is stupid of you if you are not up with a PLAN-B ...We all must prepared for the toughest situations in life, no matter how good our phase of life is... it can change any moment...any time. "HOPE FOR THE BEST, BUT BE PREPARED FOR THE WORST" A big goal without a back up plan, is like a long journey by car, without a spare tyre .

If we want  INFINITY from life , we must atleast do something FINITE for our own life ...!

❤ With every passing day the meaning of TRUST gets deeper and deeper...! ❤