LOVE FOR LIFE

W HAT IS ADDICTION??? Addiction is in simple terms can be described as a situation when you don't have any control over what you are doing and still enjoying it. For me, addiction is anything which leads you to a path at the end of which you will surely regret of doing that thing. The word ADD in ADDICTION refers to the same addition which you keep on adding to the activity which should have been stopped a long time before. Before we discuss the solution of getting rid of ADDICTION , it is very important to discuss GOOD ADDICTION AND BAD ADDICTION . So, first of all, it should be very clear that there is no such thing called GOOD ADDICTION and BAD ADDICTION . You can never term anything as a GOOD ADDICTION as long as you lose control over what you are doing . I feel ADDICTION is very similar to CANCER . Like CANCER , once it enters your body or attacks your body, it destroys you completely or if you want to defeat CANCER then you have to change yourself completel...

BLISSFUL means IMMENSE AMOUNT OF HAPPINESS AND PEACE IN LIFE, amount of which is not even countable . A blissful life is not like a period of sadness, followed by a period of happiness, then again a period of happiness and so on. This period of happiness and sadness in life exist in life when you try to find happiness in something or someone . So, the one who makes you feel happy is around you, you feel happy and the moment that someone who makes you feel happy moves away from you, it makes you feel sad. Look, before you find the solution of HOW TO MAKE LIFE BLISSFUL , you need to find out the reason WHAT KEEPS YOU AWAY FROM MAKING YOUR LIFE BLISSFUL ?? So, after observing a lot of people around me and in places I found out that there is the only single thing which keeps you away from making your life blissful. YOU always CARRY A BAGGAGE OF BEING SOMEONE ELSE . This is the real problem with you. It stops you from being YOU . When you try to be someone else...

In my last post, I talked about the ill-effects of crackers on you and the people around you and how it dampens the excitement of some of the people because of your negligence. Link to the previous post - https://loveforlife007.blogspot.in/2017/10/diwali-why-you-need-to-change-style-of.html So, the most important question is - If not crackers, then what ??? How do we make Diwali equally cheerful without crackers !!! In this blog, I will share with you, all the ways through which we can celebrate Diwali in a grander and greater way. By saying NO TO CRACKERS you will surely save a hell lot of money. So, you can use that amount in other ways effectively to celebrate this Diwali . These are a few ways, which according to me can make your Diwali this year more satisfying than ever - Buy the best dress for yourself to wear on Diwali eve - What?? Someone is saying irrespective of whether we burn CRACKERS or not, we always buy the best clothes for ourselves . So, this i...

N ow whatever I am going to write today will only be meaningful and successful, if and only if the people, especially the youngsters take a step to take up this cause and encourage others around them to follow the same. Try it for once, just this time and if you feel the difference both within you and around you, then go on with the idea and if not, then you can surely go back to what you used to do . POLLUTION - This term I am sure is not new to anyone of you living in whichever part of the world right now. This term is trending almost throughout the year. In fact,  this is the most talking about word after "SEX" . So, why you the people, with the help of whom this EARTH is made up of, is not ready to do your bit to minimise POLLUTION. When people talk about SEX, they also feel an urge to convert the same into action and get results, so why do you people just end up talking and making comments about POLLUTION ??? Why not do the same in case of POLLUTION, take up th...

EXPECTATION is the cause of all bitterness in any relationship . What is EXPECTATION ??? EXPECTATION is nothing more than COMPULSION . It is a process where you try to forcibly make someone do something by coating your demands with sugary substance . EXPECTATIONS are not bad until you keep it only to yourself. Expecting something from yourself is no bad thing. You have every right to expect everything from you . Time and again you can ask yourself to do something for yourself. But why do you have such HIGH EXPECTATIONS from somebody??? In fact, who are you to make someone act or do something the way you like to ?? I would say, the one who tries to fulfil everyone's expectations is the real culprit. Once you live up to someone's expectation-  Will they in future not expect anything from you ??  Surely they will, in fact, the expectation level will increase in future . Because people are never satisfied with what they get.  Durin...

DO YOU KNOW WHAT DESIRE IS??? DESIRE IS NOTHING BUT A FORM OF ENERGY . This is the same energy which keeps our body parts together and helps it to keep moving 24*7. If it is so, then why do we sometimes feel so confused and frustrated  because of the same desire!!!! This is where you got it wrong my dear readers. Desires don't make you feel frustrated or hopeless . Desires can be viewed in two forms, namely - FULFILLED DESIRES UNFULFILLED DESIRES .  So, the cause of all the problem, frustrations, and misery is this UNFULFILLED DESIRE . Have you ever been in a situation when you had felt unhappy after fulfilling your desire which you had been wanting to achieve!!! Obviously not, not even for a single second did it cause any trouble in your life. In fact, once you fulfil a desire, you tend to forget all the problems and difficulties you faced while reaching the endpoint and finally achieving it . We need to find a solution on how to deal with this UNFUL...

WE THE HUMAN BEINGS HAVE AN URGE OR AN URGENCY TO FOLLOW SOMEONE OR TO BE LIKE SOMEONE . WE DON'T BELIEVE IN OURSELVES. I really feel sad about the urgency that is being created among the people right from childhood. We all have been asked this question - " Ok, children tell me, like whom do you want to become when you grow up "??? Why is this question asked for !!!! For what reason do we ask a child this kind of terrible questions and put a limit to the child's infinitely limitless thoughts . The moment we try to become someone else or just be like someone else and start following someone too closely, there are just two possibilities from this - 1st aspect is, we will e nd up being exactly the one who we are following and not an inch greater than that because we already form an image or a limit of how we want to be  - if that person is successful and well established then you may see this as a good way of moving ahead in life. But wait for it. Don'...

SOCIAL MEDIA - It is a platform, where we are able to get the news of all of the things going around in the world in one place. It means nothing more than that according to me. Explaining something to yourself which you understand completely is the most important part of anything . Social Media has become a reason for death, depression, murder, theft, molestation, kidnapping and a vast number of crimes going all around in the world . I have not written this just for seeking your attention. It really has become the source of all the negatives in the world. I will list here a number of facts and instances which will prove these right. Social media was created with an intention to bring together the people all around the world . It helped the people to get connected to someone living in another country or another place. Its real intention was to cheer the bond among the people and strengthen it to the limitless point . But it has done just the opposite in recent past. I...

SLEEP - An activity in which our body rests for a while. Yes, it is a sort of activity . If it would not have been an activity, then why would some people find it difficult to sleep ? All the activities in the world can be done just for a certain period of time, after which our body gets tired and it demands rest to regain the energy. Similarly, as sleep is also an activity, it also has to be done only for a certain period of time. If done beyond that and on a continuous basis, our body feels tired and fatigue starts accumulating inside our body . So, it is necessary for the body to wake up after a definite amount of sleep or the body will start getting tired. Sleep can be further explained clearly as a FAST FOOD . If you have ever noticed, then you would understand what I am trying to say. Suppose we feel hungry, and to stop that hunger we eat a packet of chips or fries or any other fast food. But those fries and chips instead of reducing our hunger just give it a push ...

H eard of Mental Diarrhoea ??? It is as dangerous as physical diarrhoea. Moreover, it has become a common part of this generation and it comes irrespective of your age and sex. Mental diarrhoea in simple terms is the flow of thoughts inside the mind in all the directions without your control on it . Like physical diarrhoea, this too happens because of improper food you eat. Our body needs food for performing the bodily cycle of life, similarly, our mind requires its own kind of food which generates a thought inside the mind. Yes, you read it right. The thought does not generate all by itself . The thoughts start generating once we ask something or think something inside our mind. This thinking process or the question which we ask to the mind is the food I was talking about . We feed the mind with this food which in turn helps the mind to generate thoughts. I guess by now you all have understood what I am trying to convey. If not, no problem, because I will go on to expla...

This post is very close to my heart. Cleanliness, which should be our responsibility as a citizen is not so in this selfish world. Cleanliness plays such a big role which we have failed to understand in this generation. But it is still not late to realize what we must do to keep our Earth clean and pure . It is really painful to see someone spitting on the road. What is even more painful is that they feel doing this is really cool . I mean how can really anyone think of spitting on the same road, for which you have paid your hard earned money to construct the same. It is very similar to someone spitting on your money . If you yourself don't care to keep your road clean why will others even think of it!!!! I mean to say if you the people who are paying the heavy taxes to construct and keep the roads clean, spit on the road, then how and why are you expecting the people, the labour class people to not spit on the roads for which you have paid those hefty taxes . Now many p...